The fear of loosing something that you can't replace is not the kind of fear I have. The thought of that imperfect substitute tormenting me with memories of the irreplaceable something is what I am scared of. We all make a decision of labeling someone or some experience as irreplaceable when we have felt nothing like we did before. We start fearing the loss because it becomes valuable. Naturally, it becomes valuable due to the scarcity of the experience with the passing time. The superstitious version of me starts calculating everything that I might have done for me to lead up to that very moment as if I am following a recipe so that every time I get the same exact outcome. But it rarely works that way. Maybe it's the changing world around us that makes everything "Just not the same anymore". The other thing that changes in the recipe is that now it is a recipe for you. Before, it was just some things written on a piece of paper which weren't meant for calculated decisions. Before you know it, the want of the outcome to be just the same has somehow changed the key ingredient which is you, the person making the food. Subconsciously, you are just too afraid to deviate, not even a little bit. You somehow become so focused on the want for the irreplaceable, that you forget the flexibility that you effortlessly gave yourself which was one of the major reasons you came across something so special in the first place. It then is a scary affair, to reveal or even allow yourself to showcase other sides of yourself. I strongly feel it should not be that way. Would you even enjoy when you're so conscious about being yourself? That would make you loose that something special even before you have it. It's like you are changing the key ingredient to the recipe of this something special. Instead, we could just be ourselves and wait and watch which irreplaceable moment or person just decides to stick around...And only then it would be truly worth the tag.
Colors Of Life..!
Sunday 11 February 2018
Sunday 4 October 2015
Eyeliner guide for each and every type of eye!
For small but thin eyes : Pin-up , Basic , Smooth , Simple
For round and elongated eyes: Classic , Luxe , Egyptian
For Big eyes: Egyptian
For Parties : Feline , Bold , Drama , Egyptian , Luxe
For middle aged women: Double up , Basic , Simple , Smooth , Bold
For Work :Everyday , Bold , Smooth , Simple , Pin up
For Sunday Brunches/ Casual Get together : Double up , Smooth , Feline.
For Drooping eyes: Double up, Drama, Classic Egyptian
For round and elongated eyes: Classic , Luxe , Egyptian
For Big eyes: Egyptian
For Parties : Feline , Bold , Drama , Egyptian , Luxe
For middle aged women: Double up , Basic , Simple , Smooth , Bold
For Work :Everyday , Bold , Smooth , Simple , Pin up
For Sunday Brunches/ Casual Get together : Double up , Smooth , Feline.
For Drooping eyes: Double up, Drama, Classic Egyptian
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Thursday 1 October 2015
Top Chick Flicks You Have To See Right Now - Best Rom-Coms Of all Time.
So here's a list of all my favourite Chick Flicks you have to watch right away!
- Barely Legal
- Jennifer's Body
- Picture This
- Never been Kissed
- Odd Girl Out
- Not another Teen Movie
- He's just not that into you
- 100 girls
- 17 again
- Wild Child
- Whatever it Takes
- She's The Man
- Easy A
- Pretty Women
- Princess Diaries 1&2
- John Tucker Must die
- Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 1 and 2
- A Cinderella Story
- Sixteen Candles
- Pretty in Pink
- How to Save life
- Sydney white!
- Step Up
- Step up 2
- Step up 3
- Material Girls
- Aquamarine
- The Prince and Me
- Freaky Friday
- Preacher's kid
- Bandslam
- Whip It
- Fame
- 10 things I hate about you
- Remember Me
- Letters to Juliet
- Valentine's Day
- The Time Traveler's Wife
- Juno
- P.S. I love you
- Maid of honor
- 27 dresses
- Monster in law
- Maid in Manhattan
- The Wedding Planner
- Titanic
- Leap Year
- The back up Plan
- Enough
- The Nanny Diaries
- Hes just not that into you
- All about Steve
- The Proposal
- What Happens In Vegas
- The perks of being a Wallflower
- Uptown Girls
- Fired up
- Lol
- The Notebook
- A walk to remember
- Blue Lagoon
- Legally Blonde**
- Triple Dog
- Montecarlo
- Sydney White
- The last song
- Confessions of a teenage drama queen
- After School Special
- She's All That
- Picture This
- I love you Beth Cooper
- The Girl Next Door
- The Vow
- Its kind of a funny story
- Bride wars
- When in Rome
- The house Bunny
- The Perfect Man
- Just my Luck
- Prom
- The First Time
- The to do List
- Teen Drama
- The Beauiful Ordinary
- The Sleepover
- Bring It On
- Couples Retreat
- Camp Rock
- Beauty and the Briefcase
- Coyote Ugly
- Drama Queen
- Killers
- Dear John
- According to Greta
- Keith
- Inhouse Bunny
- Life as we know it
- Mr. Nobody
- St. Trinians
- Very Good Girls
- Spring Breakers
- Bratz
- Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging
- Mean Girls 1&2
- Camp Rock
- High School Musical Series.
- Friends With Benefits
- No Strings Attached
- Crazy Stupid Love
- Pretty Woman
- When Harry Met Sally
- Sweet Home Alabama
- First 50 dates
- You've Got Mail
- Grease 1
- Grease 2
- How to loose a guy in 10 days
- Clueless
- 7 year Hitch
- Sex And The City Series
- New Woman
- American Pie Series
- Miss Congeniality
- The Devil Wears Prada
- Horrible Bosses
- The Break Up Plan
- Bride Wars
- Letters To Juliet
- Charlie St. Cloud
- Pride And Prejudice
- Love Actually
- Just Like Heaven
- No Reservations
- Serendipity
- Tristan + Isolde
- So Undercover
- Nancy Drew
- The Social Network
- The Other Woman
- Sex Tape
- Ghosts Of Girlfriend's Past
- Movie 43
- The Lizzie McGuire Movie
- Material Girls
- Cadet Kelly
- According to Greta
- 27 dresses
- The Big Wedding
- The Run Away Bride
- Bachelorette
Monday 23 February 2015
A conversation that matters
When was the last time you had a meaningful conversation with someone?
Most people wouldn't remember..maybe because they have not tried having it in a long time or maybe because they don't have someone to have that sort of conversation lately..or maybe they are not brave enough to start a conversation that matters ..or maybe they are just afraid to show their vulnerability.
The worst part of all this when you really need to have some sort of connection with someone or sign that the world is not yet discouraged of you..and when you a re afraid or when you need to just vent your feelings..you don't find a single person worth it or interested in it.Because at the end of day not all the people like you.Some people just like the things you do for them.
Then there are pets and teddy bears you can talk to or blogs to say what you can't to others..but it is not the same..you just need a human to know,accept,understand your emotions and assure that you are not alone in all of this..Give some hope..that ultimately good things will happen to good people and all your efforts will bear fruit someday and that someday is not that far away.
I remember that feeling when I used to talk to my friends and they used to get it "just like that"When we used to make pacts about the future and talk about how we would and wouldn't want our lives to be.When we used to discuss all the things in the world right from reservations for the under privilliged to ideas and anonymous charity to the our dream weddings and charming princes to what kind of people we want to become and all of it. Those were just the normal days which seem extraordinary these days.
I guess somewhere along the line we all just give up on the idea of opening ourselves up and not being afraid to who we are or being too nice or too caring or too kind..because of those painful heartaches we get for being a good person.But we forget that the future someone to whom we are cold is being punished for the coldness shown by the past someone.Everyone deserves a chance to see the real you and the greatness lying inside of you.
So here's what I'm gonna do.I am gonna stop giving up on people.I am gonna bring back those commonly extraordinary days and just hope to find someone who would wanna be brave enough just like me to start a conversation that matters with me.
Most people wouldn't remember..maybe because they have not tried having it in a long time or maybe because they don't have someone to have that sort of conversation lately..or maybe they are not brave enough to start a conversation that matters ..or maybe they are just afraid to show their vulnerability.
The worst part of all this when you really need to have some sort of connection with someone or sign that the world is not yet discouraged of you..and when you a re afraid or when you need to just vent your feelings..you don't find a single person worth it or interested in it.Because at the end of day not all the people like you.Some people just like the things you do for them.
Then there are pets and teddy bears you can talk to or blogs to say what you can't to others..but it is not the same..you just need a human to know,accept,understand your emotions and assure that you are not alone in all of this..Give some hope..that ultimately good things will happen to good people and all your efforts will bear fruit someday and that someday is not that far away.
I remember that feeling when I used to talk to my friends and they used to get it "just like that"When we used to make pacts about the future and talk about how we would and wouldn't want our lives to be.When we used to discuss all the things in the world right from reservations for the under privilliged to ideas and anonymous charity to the our dream weddings and charming princes to what kind of people we want to become and all of it. Those were just the normal days which seem extraordinary these days.
I guess somewhere along the line we all just give up on the idea of opening ourselves up and not being afraid to who we are or being too nice or too caring or too kind..because of those painful heartaches we get for being a good person.But we forget that the future someone to whom we are cold is being punished for the coldness shown by the past someone.Everyone deserves a chance to see the real you and the greatness lying inside of you.
So here's what I'm gonna do.I am gonna stop giving up on people.I am gonna bring back those commonly extraordinary days and just hope to find someone who would wanna be brave enough just like me to start a conversation that matters with me.
Sunday 11 January 2015
It's just the way it is..
So I spent this day;
After a lot many days,
In such a way,
Which should be the way
To spend each day..
Being glad for everything
That is mine and everything which isn't..
At first I thought,
Too much of happy could mean sadness later on,,
But on second thoughts I concluded,
Too much of happy could even be wonderful..
It wasn't fair to be happy alone
But then I looked around hoping to find
*Somebody* to share the happiness with
I guess it wasn't time yet
For that *Somebody* to come
So *Nobody* had to fill in for *Somebody*
I guess it isn't fair to be alone alone too.
In the end..
Its just the way it is,isn't it?
But this isn't the way,is it?
So I tried to change that
Ultimately failure was all I got.
And then came a beautiful thought;
If holding on to it made me miserable,
And a lot..
Maybe letting go could make me happy ..
And a lot..
And so I did it.
Maybe for the better.
Maybe for worse.
I left that upon time to tell..
I wanted to laugh
Without fear of the future,
But I was scared
Of what comes next..
Yet again I was sure of,
What is meant
Would find its way..
Its just the way it is..isn't it?
It just is..
After a lot many days,
In such a way,
Which should be the way
To spend each day..
Being glad for everything
That is mine and everything which isn't..
At first I thought,
Too much of happy could mean sadness later on,,
But on second thoughts I concluded,
Too much of happy could even be wonderful..
It wasn't fair to be happy alone
But then I looked around hoping to find
*Somebody* to share the happiness with
I guess it wasn't time yet
For that *Somebody* to come
So *Nobody* had to fill in for *Somebody*
I guess it isn't fair to be alone alone too.
In the end..
Its just the way it is,isn't it?
But this isn't the way,is it?
So I tried to change that
Ultimately failure was all I got.
And then came a beautiful thought;
If holding on to it made me miserable,
And a lot..
Maybe letting go could make me happy ..
And a lot..
And so I did it.
Maybe for the better.
Maybe for worse.
I left that upon time to tell..
I wanted to laugh
Without fear of the future,
But I was scared
Of what comes next..
Yet again I was sure of,
What is meant
Would find its way..
Its just the way it is..isn't it?
It just is..
Monday 29 December 2014
Just for once
Just for once
I want someone to look me in the eye and say that I am beautiful
Just for once
I want to have a deep meaningful conversation about things that matter
Just for once
I want to someone to hear all my stupid talks as if they are so meaningful and actually want to hear more
Just for once
I want to share all my hopes and dreams which are never going to come true with someone
Just for once
I don't want to feel vulnerable when I get hurt or cry in front of someone
Just for once
I want to believe that I am good enough to deserve all that I have
Just for once
I want to experience the calmness of silence all around
Just for once
I want someone to understand my feelings without saying a word
Just for once
I don't want anything to worry about
Just for once
I want to be my weird self without having to think what others would think
Just for once
I want to do stuff without thinking about its consequences
Just for once
I want to be fully alive to each and every moment that passes by
Just for once
I want to laugh so hard that my stomach starts aching
Just for once
I want to spend a day doing just nothing at all
Just for once
I want to make someone's impossible wish come true
Just for once
I want to have the pleasure of doing something I fear the most
Just for once
I want to find magic in unexpected places
Just for once
I want to feel I'm complete.
I want someone to look me in the eye and say that I am beautiful
Just for once
I want to have a deep meaningful conversation about things that matter
Just for once
I want to someone to hear all my stupid talks as if they are so meaningful and actually want to hear more
Just for once
I want to share all my hopes and dreams which are never going to come true with someone
Just for once
I don't want to feel vulnerable when I get hurt or cry in front of someone
Just for once
I want to believe that I am good enough to deserve all that I have
Just for once
I want to experience the calmness of silence all around
Just for once
I want someone to understand my feelings without saying a word
Just for once
I don't want anything to worry about
Just for once
I want to be my weird self without having to think what others would think
Just for once
I want to do stuff without thinking about its consequences
Just for once
I want to be fully alive to each and every moment that passes by
Just for once
I want to laugh so hard that my stomach starts aching
Just for once
I want to spend a day doing just nothing at all
Just for once
I want to make someone's impossible wish come true
Just for once
I want to have the pleasure of doing something I fear the most
Just for once
I want to find magic in unexpected places
Just for once
I want to feel I'm complete.
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