Sunday 11 February 2018

The Irreplaceable

The fear of loosing something that you can't replace is not the kind of fear I have. The thought of that imperfect substitute tormenting me with memories of the irreplaceable something is what I am scared of. We all make a decision of labeling someone or some experience as irreplaceable when we have felt nothing like we did before. We start fearing the loss because it becomes valuable. Naturally, it becomes valuable due to the scarcity of the experience with the passing time. The superstitious version of me starts calculating everything that I might have done for me to lead up to that very moment as if I am following a recipe so that every time I get the same exact outcome. But it rarely works that way. Maybe it's the changing world around us that makes everything "Just not the same anymore". The other thing that changes in the recipe is that now it is a recipe for you. Before, it was just some things written on a piece of paper which weren't meant for calculated decisions. Before you know it, the want of the outcome to be just the same has somehow changed the key ingredient which is you, the person making the food. Subconsciously, you are just too afraid to deviate, not even a little bit. You somehow become so focused on the want for the irreplaceable, that you forget the flexibility that you effortlessly gave yourself  which was one of the major reasons you came across something so special in the first place. It then is a scary affair, to reveal or even allow yourself to showcase other sides of yourself. I strongly feel it should not be that way. Would you even enjoy when you're so conscious about being yourself? That would make you loose that something special even before you have it. It's like you are changing the key ingredient to the recipe of this something special. Instead, we could just be ourselves and wait and watch which irreplaceable moment or person just decides to stick around...And only then it would be truly worth the tag.



Sunday 4 October 2015

Just Wedding Things!












































Eyeliner guide for each and every type of eye!

For small but thin eyes : Pin-up , Basic , Smooth , Simple
For round and elongated eyes: Classic , Luxe , Egyptian
For Big eyes: Egyptian 
For Parties : Feline , Bold , Drama , Egyptian , Luxe
For middle aged women: Double up , Basic , Simple , Smooth , Bold
For Work :Everyday , Bold , Smooth , Simple , Pin up
For Sunday Brunches/ Casual Get together : Double up , Smooth , Feline.
For Drooping eyes: Double up, Drama, Classic Egyptian

Here are some amazing links:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1T3pCN0BFc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6nNO5o94Ow



Thursday 1 October 2015

Top Chick Flicks You Have To See Right Now - Best Rom-Coms Of all Time.


So here's a list of all my favourite Chick Flicks you have to watch right away!
  1. Barely Legal
  2. Jennifer's Body
  3. Picture This
  4. Never been Kissed
  5. Odd Girl Out
  6. Not another Teen Movie
  7. He's just not that into you
  8. 100 girls
  9. 17 again
  10. Wild Child
  11. Whatever it Takes
  12. She's The Man
  13. Easy A
  14. Pretty Women
  15. Princess Diaries 1&2
  16. John Tucker Must die
  17. Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 1 and 2
  18. A Cinderella Story
  19. Sixteen Candles
  20. Pretty in Pink
  21. How to Save life
  22. Sydney white! 
  23. Step Up
  24. Step up 2
  25. Step up 3
  26. Material Girls
  27. Aquamarine
  28. The Prince and Me
  29. Freaky Friday
  30. Preacher's kid
  31. Bandslam
  32. Whip It
  33. Fame
  34. 10 things I hate about you
  35. Remember Me
  36. Letters to Juliet
  37. Valentine's Day
  38. The Time Traveler's Wife
  39. Juno
  40. P.S. I love you
  41. Maid of honor
  42. 27 dresses
  43. Monster in law
  44. Maid in Manhattan
  45. The Wedding Planner
  46. Titanic
  47. Leap Year
  48. The back up Plan
  49. Enough
  50. The Nanny Diaries
  51. Hes just not that into you
  52. All about Steve
  53. The Proposal
  54. What Happens In Vegas
  55. The perks of being a Wallflower 
  56. Uptown Girls
  57. Fired up
  58. Lol
  59. The Notebook
  60. A walk to remember
  61. Blue Lagoon
  62. Legally Blonde**
  63. Triple Dog
  64. Montecarlo
  65. Sydney White
  66. The last song
  67. Confessions of a teenage drama queen
  68. After School Special
  69. She's All That
  70. Picture This
  71. I love you Beth Cooper
  72. The Girl Next Door
  73. The Vow
  74. Its kind of a funny story
  75. Bride wars
  76. When in Rome
  77. The house Bunny
  78. The Perfect Man
  79. Just my Luck
  80. Prom
  81. The First Time
  82. The to do List
  83. Teen Drama
  84. The Beauiful Ordinary
  85. The Sleepover
  86. Bring It On
  87. Couples Retreat
  88. Camp Rock
  89. Beauty and the Briefcase
  90. Coyote Ugly
  91. Drama Queen
  92. Killers
  93. Dear John
  94. According to Greta
  95. Keith
  96. Inhouse Bunny
  97. Life as we know it
  98. Mr. Nobody
  99. St. Trinians
  100. Very Good Girls
  101. Spring Breakers
  102. Bratz
  103. Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging
  104. Mean Girls 1&2
  105. Camp Rock
  106. High School Musical Series.
  107. Friends With Benefits
  108. No Strings Attached
  109. Crazy Stupid Love
  110. Pretty Woman
  111. When Harry Met Sally
  112. Sweet Home Alabama
  113. First 50 dates
  114. You've Got Mail
  115. Grease 1
  116. Grease 2
  117. How to loose a guy in 10 days
  118. Clueless
  119. 7 year Hitch
  120. Sex And The City Series
  121. New Woman
  122. American Pie Series
  123. Miss Congeniality
  124. The Devil Wears Prada
  125. Horrible Bosses
  126. The Break Up Plan
  127. Bride Wars
  128. Letters To Juliet
  129. Charlie St. Cloud
  130. Pride And Prejudice
  131. Love Actually
  132. Just Like Heaven
  133. No Reservations
  134. Serendipity
  135. Tristan + Isolde
  136. So Undercover
  137. Nancy Drew
  138. The Social Network
  139. The Other Woman
  140. Sex Tape
  141. Ghosts Of Girlfriend's Past
  142. Movie 43
  143. The Lizzie McGuire Movie
  144. Material Girls
  145. Cadet Kelly
  146. According to Greta
  147. 27 dresses
  148. The Big Wedding
  149. The Run Away Bride
  150. Bachelorette

Monday 23 February 2015

A conversation that matters

When was the last time you had a meaningful conversation with someone?
Most people wouldn't remember..maybe because they have not tried having it in a long time or maybe because they don't have someone to have that sort of  conversation lately..or maybe they are not brave enough to start a conversation that matters ..or maybe they are just afraid to show their vulnerability.

The worst part of all this when you really need to have some sort of connection with someone or sign that the world is not yet discouraged of you..and when you a re afraid or when you need to just vent your feelings..you don't find a single person worth it or interested in it.Because at the end of day not all the people like you.Some people just like the things you do for them.

Then there are pets and teddy bears you can talk to or blogs to say what you can't to others..but it is not the same..you just need a human to know,accept,understand your emotions and assure  that you are not alone in all of this..Give some hope..that ultimately good things will happen to good people and all your efforts will bear fruit someday and that someday is not that far away.
I remember that feeling when I used to talk to my friends and they used to get it "just like that"When we used to make pacts about the future and talk about how we would and wouldn't want our lives to be.When we used to discuss all the things in the world right from reservations for the under privilliged to ideas and anonymous charity to the our dream weddings and charming princes to what kind of people we want to become and all of it. Those were just the normal days which seem extraordinary these days.

I guess somewhere along the line we all just give up on the idea of opening ourselves up and not being afraid to who we are or being too nice or too caring or too kind..because of those painful heartaches we get for being a good person.But we forget that the future someone to whom we are cold is being punished for the coldness shown by the past someone.Everyone deserves a chance to see the real you and the greatness lying inside of you.

So here's what I'm gonna do.I am gonna stop giving up on people.I am gonna bring back those commonly extraordinary days and just hope to find someone who would wanna be brave enough just like me to start a conversation that matters with me.

Sunday 11 January 2015

It's just the way it is..

So I spent this day;
After a lot many days,
In such a way,
Which should be the way
To spend each day..
Being glad for everything
That is mine and everything which isn't..

At first I thought,
Too much of happy could mean sadness later on,,
But on second thoughts I concluded,
Too much of happy could even be wonderful..

It wasn't fair to be happy alone
But then I looked around hoping to find
*Somebody* to share the happiness with
I guess it wasn't time yet
For that *Somebody* to come
So *Nobody* had to fill in for *Somebody*

I guess it isn't fair to be alone alone too.
In the end..
Its just the way it is,isn't it?
But this isn't the way,is it?
So I tried to change that
Ultimately failure was all I got.

And then came a beautiful thought;
If holding on to it made me miserable,
And a lot..
Maybe letting go could make me happy ..
And a lot..
And so I did it.
Maybe for the better.
Maybe for worse.
I left that upon time to tell..

I wanted to laugh
Without fear of the future,
But I was scared
Of what comes next..
Yet again I was sure of,
What is meant
Would find its way..
Its just the way it is..isn't it?
It just is..








Monday 29 December 2014

Just for once

Just for once
I want someone to look me in the eye and say that I am beautiful
Just for once
I want to have a deep meaningful conversation about things that matter
Just for once
I want to someone to hear all my stupid talks as if they are so meaningful  and actually want to hear more
Just for once
I want to share all my hopes and dreams which are never going to come true with someone
Just for once
I don't want to feel vulnerable when I get hurt or cry in front of someone
Just for once
I want to believe that I am good enough to deserve all that I have
Just for once
I want to experience the calmness of silence all around
Just for once
I want someone to understand my feelings without saying a word
Just for once
I don't want anything to worry about
Just for once
I want to be my weird self without having to think what others would think
Just for once
I want to do stuff without thinking about its consequences
Just for once
I want to be fully alive to each and every moment that passes by
Just for once
I want to laugh so hard that my stomach starts aching
Just for once
I want to spend a day doing just nothing at all
Just for once
I want to make someone's impossible wish come true
Just for once
I want to have the pleasure of doing something I fear the most
Just for once
I want to find magic in unexpected places
Just for once
I want to feel I'm complete.