Thursday, 21 March 2013

Family... :)

Here's a wonderful mail that i received today..

F A M I L Y



I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.


He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'


We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.


But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.


Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.


When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.


He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.


While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,


'While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.


Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.


Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.


He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'


By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall..


I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.


'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.


I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'


I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'


I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'




FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.


And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?


Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
 FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU


Friday, 15 March 2013

મને એ જ સમજાતું નથી કે આવું શાને થાય છે??




મને એ જ સમજાતું નથી કે આવું શાને થાય છે.
ફૂલડાં ડૂબી જતાં ને પથ્થરો તરી જાય છે.

ટળવળે તરશર્યાં તારાં જે વાદળી વેરણ બને.
તે જ રણમાં ઘૂમ મુસળધાર વરસી જાય છે.

ઘર-હીણાં ઘૂમે હજારો ઠોકરાતાં ઠેર ઠેર
ને ગગન-ચુમ્બી મહાલો જનસૂનાં રહી જાય છે.

દેવડીએ દંડ પામે ચોર મૂઠી જારના:
લાખ ખાંડી લૂંટનારા મહેફિલે મંડાય છે.

કામધેનુને જડે ના એક સૂકું તણખલું
ને લીલાંછમ ખેતરો સૌ આખલા ચરી જાય છે.

છે ગરીબોના કુબામાં તેલ ટીપુંય દોહ્યલું ?
ને શ્રીમંતોની કબર પર ઘીના દીવા થાય છે.

-કરસનદાસ લુહાર

How do we come to know if something is true or not..?? Well,if it sounds bitter it is the truth..!! Strange but soo true..! Just ponder upon this..Is God fair to all of us..? OR are some of us "lucky"( as we quote it..) If God is kind enough to you.. please don't take for granted. You never know when what can happen.Its all unpredictable.You are ALIVE at the moment. You may DIE the next moment. So exploit your opportunities to their fullest so that you never face the regret on NOT doing something..so just do everything you wish to !LIVE THE MOMENT GUYS..!


Thursday, 28 February 2013

Life is beautiful..!

 Life is beautiful..!

LIFE-Wake up-get ready ( or typically should I say dressed up?)-Facebook-Horoscope-Bollywood Newspaper-A cup full of tea-Study-Chatting on phone-texting-Tutions-Lunch-listening music-repeat telecast of daily soaps-gossiping about friends with best friends-Facebook-tv reality shows-solitaire-bed-DREAMS-dreams-forgot the dreams-wake up-BACK TO LIFE

The above mentioned is my life.So from where is it "beautiful"? or what is "beautiful" about it..?
My freinds or my self made tea or my wildest dreams? Actually none of these... none of these are beautiful without each other.These silly little things make up my routine , make life and ultimately make me me.

Nothing being really so special make everything so much special to me..! Everyday people like me wake up with the first thought in mind of watching their favourite tv serial..! I really love to see how many likes my profile picture has got on facebook, I love to drink tea as if I am having coffee on a date with Mr. Dream Boy.! I love to create my own Phillosophy, I love to wear my party frock at home,I love to dream and I love to do whatever make me original..!

Sometimes everything seems to be so simple and great going that you just want to stop there and  look at yourself.I have actually learnt to deal with the problems in my life. Always the bottom line becomes "whatever happens, atleast I am not going to die" I don't want to die. I want to live because I have got to do many things before I die.!

Today, I feel that I am complete.I don't need anything else in life..A loving family, awsomest  freinds who are your body parts..(u literally can't live without them), convinient life,influential people,great schooling and a good heart...I think that's enough for all of us to live a satisfied life...(p.s @God: I never forget you...and you know,  a golden hearted somebody has made me realize something about you..I'll never forget to thank you for all that you have given me,the strength and the courage to live and how!)

@Life: you rock ! And trust me, if I am with you, u'll always rock!

Monday, 2 July 2012

Truths..!




Many a times this may have happened to you too that something bad has happened which you were not expecting or wanting.You are upset because of what has "happened" to you and you "feel" bad about it. All of us including me think that our feelings, emotions or thought are a result of the happenings in our life.! But what if I tell you that the occurances or events in your life are a result of your own feelings and emotions!Life is not happening to you ; Life is responding to you..!!! Whatever you get is the "return gift" of what emotions you have given. What you give you recieve that only..! We all are familiar, with Newton's Third Law of Motion : EVERY ACTION HAS AN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE REACTION.Whatever your thoughts or feelings are ; they return as automatically and as precisely as a echo.!So, If you want to be loved, love..! Because when you love you are using the greatest power in the universe..! It is the positive force of life..!Always remember, that the measure of love is love without measure..! It is but obvious that we have an unlimited ability to think and imagine.! When we think or imagine we feel that imagination.. So if we imagine, think or feel good you will get good..! Hence, amplify your feelings by by thinking, feeling and doing good..! Count the things you love about yourself until you feel amazing..! Henceforth consider yourself as a magnet. where you will attract the people, circumstances and events on the same feeling frequuency..! Destiny is not a matter of chance but it is a matter of choice..!
Whatever you can imagine- you can feel. Whatever you can feel you can make it happen.! Thus, "your perfect life" is already existant in this world..! You just have to bring it to you..! Because you have got the power to do so..! You are meant to have an amazing, superb, fantaculous life..!
Give and it will be given to you.                                   
                                                  -Jesus
Nothing comes from without, everything comes from within..! 
                                                -Neville Goddard
What you believe is the truth for yourself and the world. Believe in LOVE, GOD and YOURSELF..!

Sunday, 17 June 2012

Wouldn't that be..???


Eyes closed..Slideshow starts..
Wouldn't that time be wasted when I didn't tink about you..?
Wouldn't that math sum be "solutionless" if you wouldn't help me..?
Wouldn't that journey from school to home be booring without you and your "News of the day"...??
Would my exam go off well if we were not to discuss the strange objectives from the corner of the textbook..?
Wouldn't that day not become a stressburster if you were not with me to share that "vadapav" with me during the tution break..?
Wouldn't that "Birthday..!!!!!" be just a "Birthday" if you were not there to give the sweetest surprises..!
Wouldn't that piece of cake feel bad if it were not to go into your mouth by me..?
Wouldn't  planning my "Christmas Party" be such a tedious thing to do if you were not there to help me out..?
Wouldn't those streets feel lonely if you were not pass by them often and meet me accidently..??
Wouldn't "કેના"  be "સેના " without you..???
Wouldn't that cycle ride be meaningless without you..?
Would 16th February 2011 be a Legendry day if you wouldn't have tried your super best to console me and wipe off my tears..?
Wouldn't "LIFE..!" be "life" without you..??
Would I be Me without you..?
Eyes open..Eyes Glittering..


Thursday, 3 May 2012

Moving on..?

I decided to move on.. and i thought I had moved on. But I don't even know what does this term "move on" mean. How can u just destroy your unconditional love for a person in just one "thought" and then show or rather show off to the world that you have moved on..? I feel it can never happen in life that you just decide to forget someone who had been an integral part of your life and then act as if today you don't give a damn to that fellow.It is just the bitter truth that you and me don't want to accept. It is just to show yourself and that person that you are bold enough to live without him/her.Today, I can proudly accept that even today i have a soft corner for a person who "was" a part of my soul.. who completed me. But now I have started "coping" with it. I cannot say that time has healed everything for me but for sure it has helped me a great deal. Even I tried those silly tricks of involving myself in stupid stuff.. but then ultimately I knew that I was doing all this just to get over it..So... I stopped trying.. because all this made me remember it more and more. And I certainly didn't want to experience that pain again and again.I decided to face the situation and then end it.I sorted out my mind and I enlightened myself to the fact that , that xyz person"was" my "past" and I am my "present" and only I can decide my "future". I was determined to control my thoughts. I decided not to think about it anymore. Because what had to happen had already happened. Now no worse than this can happen.When can a person make his weakness his own strength..? When he first recognizes his weaknesses and then assures himself to act upon it.
Convert your nightmare into your sweetest memory and always try to recall the good part of it in life and keep on smiling..!

Wherever I am .. wherever I will be.. your presence will always be immortal in my heart.
Even if my heart expresses its feelings to somebody or not.. you will remain forever in my heart..
It is said that we are not alone in this crowded world.. but unknowingly this heart creates a loneliness. but I assure you are and will be with me..
Somewhere in the heart.. memories don't ever want to leave it..
Somewhere every scene and every picture gets foggy..
Somewhere people are happy in the new colors of life..
Somewhere even after possessing each and every luxury in the world heart tells to itself.. that I am  not alone in this crowded world.. But unknowingly why am I  creating a loneliness.??? Still I assure you will be here in me.. with me..
Somewhere the overshadowing past's roots enter deep into the heart..
Somewhere if the string breaks the beeds of the necklace get shattered..
Somewhere people allot a place in the heart for something new.
Somewhere people keep candles of memories in their churches of heart..
Whatever it is ... I assure you.. I promise you , you were, are, and will be forever with me...!!!!!

Sunday, 29 April 2012

The Lost You..!!!

Neele nilam sa behta hua yeh sama.....nili neelam si khamoshiyaan.... na kahin hai zamin na kahin aasman..
sarsarati hui tahniyaan..... pattiyan keh rahi ki bas tum ho yaahan..... sirf main hoon meri saansein hai aur meri dhadkanein.....aisi gehraiyaan...... aisi tanhaiyaan..aur mein sirf mein...... aur apne hone mein mujko yakeen aa gaya..!

Ek baat hotho tak jo aayi nahi.. bas aankho se hai jhankti......tumse kabhi.... mujhse kabhi kuch labz hai voh maangti......jinko pehenke hotho tak aa jaaye voh......aavaz ki baho mein bahein dalke ithlaaye voh.. lekin jo yeh ek baat hai..aisaas hai ... ehsaaz hai.. khushboo si hai jo hawa mein tehelti..... khushboo jo beawaaz hai..jiska pata tumko bhi hai..... jiski khabar mujko bhi hai.... duniya se bhi chupta nahin ....yeh jaane kaisa raaz hai..?

Jab jab dard ka badal chaya ... jab gum ka sehra lehraya.... jab aansu palko tak aaya... jab tanhaa dil ghabraya....hamne dil ko yeh samjhaya.. dil aakhir tu kyo rota hai..? Duniya mein yu hi hota hai....yeh jo gehre sannate hai.... vakt ne sabko hi baate hai.. thoda gum hai sabka kissa.... thodi dhoop hai sabka hissa.... aankh teri bekar hi num hai.... har pal ek naya mausam hai.. kyun tu aise pal khota hai.. dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai..?

Dilo mein tum apni betabiyaan le ke chal rahe ho toh zinda ho tum..... nazar mein khaboon ki bijliyan le ke chal rahe ho toh zinda ho tum..hawa ke jhoko ke jaise aazad rehna sikho.. tum ek dariya ke jaise lehro mein behna sikho.. har ek lamhe se milo ghole apni baahein.. har ek pal .. ek naya sama dekhein ye nigahein.. jo apni aankhon mein hairaniyaan le ke chal rahe ho toh zinda ho tum.. Dilo mein tum apni betabiyaan le ke chal rahe ho toh zinda ho tum..!!!!

You might have undergone metamorphosis..after reading all. this..You might also recall that these line are from the movie "Zindagi na milegi dobara" As the title itself suggests life is one and only one..! In your busy schedule you rarely get a chance to think about others..If not exactly "others" then definitely the missing things of life which CAN contribute to your" perfect life" . But "time" being the obstacle between YOU and the INNER YOU doesn't permit that..So the only option left is to become fearless and let the world go to hell.. and you get lost in search of yourself..Or should I say.. "The Lost Self" in this crowded yet lonely world...! So get out and try to find that special feeling.. that desire which only you can rekindle..! `